Do what you want. If you get fussed at later pull a Bll Clinton. Don't apologize, just say "Mistakes were made." and carry on.
When I was married to my ex she was constantly fussing about this or that, and I was overly concerned with "fixing" whatever it was and being the great husband. Recipe for disaster. Obviously.
Now that we are divorced and just live together (yes, I know that's weird) we get along fine. I do what I want, which because of my moral compass is not anything destructive, and I just laugh if she fusses about non-essential things or what I'm doing. Basically I treat her like an annoying kid sister most of the time. So she can complain to her girlfriends about me and get sympathies. If she complains to me I tease her about it.
If you tease a girl and she cries, you did it wrong. If she laughs, slaps your arm and tells you that you are rotten, you did it right.
Don't get me wrong, I treat her very well and have always taken good care of her, I just don't put up with much if any female crap. But I don't get mad, yell or get in a huff when she does the things women do. I no longer take it serious because 95% of the time, it's not. I just laugh about it and often she does too later.
She's never been more in love with me.
I guess your wife can complain to her friends that you're always off riding or doing guy stuff or she can complain that you're always sitting around the house annoying her and wanting to discuss her feelings and your relationship. That's a sure way to keep the fire going right? Your call.